One day at a time

Marriage as I wasn't expecting it to be.

Monday, February 26, 2007

The story of A

There isn’t really much to write. We have been actually really good to each other. No name calling, or picking on. So to speak.

I will tell you about someone I’ll call A. She is young (10 years his junior), pretty, in University, and was paying him too much attention. I finally put my foot down and said no more A hanging around.

She would come into the house and not look at me, but talk directly to him. She was supposed to wait for his phone call to come over a week or so back so she could drive him somewhere. But before he even had the chance to pick up the phone she was at the door. She stated that she made the effort to go to the pub on Monday evenings (the evening he usually goes to the pub alone) and when she was over for an evening she would say how late she loved staying up ‘till. But when decided he was tired around 10 pm, suddenly she needed to get up early and had to go. Mmmmm seems a little fishy to me. Why would a young university student want to hang around someone who is ten years older with responsibilities, and a WIFE!!!

I said enough was enough. Our marriage is too delicate to have her hanging around flaunting herself in front of my husband. Hopefully he had heard what I said and will never see her again. I truly hope for both of them it was never a thing.

Lets see what A’s next move is shall we???
D

Monday, February 12, 2007

Oops

CRAP! You know I had this whole bitching thing going for me earlier. Then He came home and I had to suddenly close the file…losing it altogether.

Well it started with last weekend with the accusation of leaving a pack of sausages out and the dog ate them. Then me not able to make sausage sandwiches (I got up early so he could go fishing and me drive him) then not able to find the Tupperware container to put his veg in for the day. Still can’t find it, figure it is at his work. And still he didn’t take the garbage out.

CRAP! All the good things I can count on my one hand;

Suggested buying daffodils for myself
Took the garbage bag to the wheelie bin
Was nice earlier in the week
Made me tea a few morning in a row
Felt guilty about going to wake me up on Sat (Although I had to get up anyways ‘cause I had to go to work)

This week went all right, most days were good. Not too much to complain about. Still can’t find his Tupperware container. Neither one of us can find it really.

This weekend it was really good though. We never argued, or any blaming at all. He suggested sex on Sunday…and I gave in. Ok all I said was “Ok I guess” so was had sex.

In the evening he then got all uppity about my father offering a flight to Canada for a birthday gift to go home in the summer. All because my family never offer him a ticket. Ummm ‘cause he’s not their offspring. DUH! When does any of his family do the same for me…..never. Mainly because they don’t have the money to give him for his ticket, and whenever they do have money, they give the good gifts to him. Seems fair to me.

Oh well, cross your fingers that this week is a good one eh?
D