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Well it turns out that A thought my texts were harassment. So on Monday She called him. He refuses to talk about the conversation, and says it doesn’t matter since that the situation is over. At one point he said that since I went on to his cell phone and deleted her number (after the fact that I asked him to not see her any more) and I saw her text to him and quoted the text to her, he can no longer trust me. It will take years to gain back that trust. Well I stated that I wont waste years of my life to gain back trust over some stupid text message with some stupid girl and he must either trust me or not. Well it turns out he does trust me after all and he was upset when he said it.

She didn’t even tell him what the text said. So to the best of my ability I requited them to him. As I don’t have them on my phone anymore I did the best I could. I also said to him NOBODY but his mother, sister and myself can send him love and kisses. Not cushier. I also looked on the phone details to see all out going calls, charges, and duration etc. turns out he called her for 8 mins on the Monday. I feel that it must be over between them as I was going to give him the ultimatum of me or her, and if it was her then I would consider it cheating. Cheating = Divorce. No ifs, buts, nadda.

So it looks like I have my husband back and little A can go and find some other fool to play with. It’s never a good idea to get on my bad side. I can be pretty ruthless if I’m mad.

So once again all seem well now. Prey she understands.
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Typical Man

Yep he is a typical man. On my way home last week from picking up some groceries I decided that I would stop in for a pint on my way home. He usually goes to the pub on Mondays’ so I thought that I would join him for a quick pint. And low and behold A was sitting at the table with him. Of course I stayed and made her time there very inhospitable. Once A left I asked him why she was there, and expecially why he was buying her drinks. Well after letting him know AGAIN how I felt about her, he denied that I said I didn’t want him to see her and just that she wasn’t allowed at the house. I again told him that she is to go away, end of story. Well I figured that would be the end of it.

On the weekend I needed to use his cell phone and found a text from A she sent him on Monday after she left the pub with us;
“Well that was just as enjoyable as a colonic irrigation (her number inserted) love x”
So not did I only delete it I sent her a text from my phone;
“Leave (insert his name) alone. You aren’t wanted around us”
I think it stroke a cord in her. And I got a response of ;
“What is it you think is going on?! For gods sake I’m seeing someone and sure (insert his name) needs friends as well as a wife, that shouldn’t be viewed as a threat. I’ve not done anything to you so perhaps if you have nothing nice to say you shouldn’t say anything to me. He’s a big boy and can make his own decisions”
Well I just couldn’t let her get away that can I? So I responded to her ;
“ I know he’s ‘a big boy’ I don’t care for you. As respect for another woman, please stay away from him. There are 3 billion people in the world. We don’t need you as a friend. Unless you actually like colonic irrigation.”

Her move now. But not only that…. I looked at the house phones most recently called numbers…surprise surprise her number came up. Let’s see what happens now.
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No more A!

Yep that’s right.

He had a chat with her the other week at the pub and told her to go away. Well I’m not sure what he exactly said to her but it was along those lines. Apparently she was a little upset but understood. Hmmmm well by that response I guess she did have alternative motives. I told him if she wants to talk about it she knows where to find me. Surprise surprise, she doesn’t want to talk about it. If she did want to stay friends she would have wanted to talk right?

We have been getting along great lately. Maybe it’s the weather, or that he is going away for a while (work contract) who knows, but I’m liking it. Lets keep it up! Our sex life has improved too. We have actually had to buy condoms, since we ran out, and the last box was purchased before Christmas. So far so good.

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