Double standard
The other day he called it was a good conversation until he suggested that I get rid of the cat (again). I asked him if he thinks before he speaks or just opens his mouth and lets words fall out. So that was a bad conversation in the end. The next day he called to remind me it’s mothers day on the Saturday, and then described how the dog barks at everyone that comes onto the property. I suggested that the dog needed a dose of the cat to put him straight. So at that point he said that the dog doesn’t need to see the cat EVER AGAIN!
Bah! Told him straight that she will still be with me when I come over. I will never get rid of her so stop asking, I basically told him. I figure an eye for an eye right? I get rid of the cat, he gets rid of the dog. Double Standard if you ask me.
Our next conversation occurred later in the week when I said I booked my ticket to come over. (Not paid for yet, just booked) Well he got upset about that saying that I should have cleared it with him first. So the conversation turned into an argument, over we planned one thing and now I’m changing the plans. Plans change love. I then reminded him that we planned on bringing the cat and he wanted to change that. That plan will not change.
I asked him how he was enjoying staying with his parents, and spending time with his father. Apparently he is enjoying himself. I said I couldn’t wait to go and see my family and friends, get a job, a home. And then I continued to say he must really like having that opportunity to do those things already. Well he went quiet then. Stopped him in his tracks.
Never once in all our conversations has he ever told me he loves me. I said it the first calls we talked, but never in return. So I’ve decided I wont say it anymore. It usually works well this way, I turn the tables on him and he then comes out saying something like “don’t you love me anymore, you never say it” So I’m waiting to see if he’s caught on. So far it’s been two weeks, and no takers, so I’m waiting. I’ll let you know when he does catch on. Good luck!
D
Bah! Told him straight that she will still be with me when I come over. I will never get rid of her so stop asking, I basically told him. I figure an eye for an eye right? I get rid of the cat, he gets rid of the dog. Double Standard if you ask me.
Our next conversation occurred later in the week when I said I booked my ticket to come over. (Not paid for yet, just booked) Well he got upset about that saying that I should have cleared it with him first. So the conversation turned into an argument, over we planned one thing and now I’m changing the plans. Plans change love. I then reminded him that we planned on bringing the cat and he wanted to change that. That plan will not change.
I asked him how he was enjoying staying with his parents, and spending time with his father. Apparently he is enjoying himself. I said I couldn’t wait to go and see my family and friends, get a job, a home. And then I continued to say he must really like having that opportunity to do those things already. Well he went quiet then. Stopped him in his tracks.
Never once in all our conversations has he ever told me he loves me. I said it the first calls we talked, but never in return. So I’ve decided I wont say it anymore. It usually works well this way, I turn the tables on him and he then comes out saying something like “don’t you love me anymore, you never say it” So I’m waiting to see if he’s caught on. So far it’s been two weeks, and no takers, so I’m waiting. I’ll let you know when he does catch on. Good luck!
D
posted by D @ 3:41 pm
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